Love
Start with Self. End with “I DO”!
Are you single and searching for real, lasting love in a world of superficial interactions and unmet expectations?
The LOVE Niche for Singles is an inclusive community of intentional men and women dedicated to personal growth and preparing for lasting love.
At its heart is the “I DO! Syllabus” ™ — an invitation to invest in yourself and build a healthy, thriving relationship.
Romantic commitment is one of life’s greatest investments. Choosing who receives it is your most valuable gift.
By engaging in I DO!, you’ll elevate your standards, expect more from yourself, and become more discerning about who you invite into your life.
Coming early 2026 in Charlotte: “I DO!” + Mixer-ology: an app-free singles experience designed as a special optional invitation for I DO! participants!
Mixer-ology is a private, safe, and fun social learning gathering I host, exclusively for I DO! “insiders” ― small, intimate settings with like-minded men and women, mixing, mingling, and connecting.
I guide “straight-up” honest talks about dating, love, and unpredictable chemistry! Cocktails or mocktails are stirred, insights bubble up, connections form, and as glasses clink, sparks may fly!
Whether you pursue growth through the “I DO!” Syllabus solo or combining with Mixer-ology, each path offers the chance to connect and grow on a deeper level.
The right relationship always begins with the one you cultivate with yourself.
Ready to dig deeper? Here’s what this journey looks like.
“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! I refer to her as a ‘bad-ass coach’ because she’ll be fiercely committed to your success and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you may want to hear.” – T.P.
The Invitation: “I DO!” Syllabus ― Learn. Grow. Evolve.
When searching for love, it’s tempting to think all the good ones are gone, that dating is just hard, or to blame others for their unresolved issues. Often, the real reasons aren’t “out there” ― they’re within us.
Who actually asks, “Would I marry ME?” or “Am I the red flag I warn my friends about?”
This is where I DO! stands out. It’s a one-on-one mastery course in self-discovery ― a holistic, deep, meaningful inner self journey to intimately understand yourself: the good, the bad, and the ego, offered in-person or remotely.
At its core is the Self Syllabus ― a proven roadmap I developed over twenty-five years of coaching in Life and Leadership, both nationally and internationally. Within the Love niche, it’s called the “I DO!” Syllabus™.
You’ll progress through honest self-reflection in a two- or four-month engagement, featuring propriety exercises, strategic practices, and assessment tools focused on behavioral style, motivation, and emotional intelligence. Personalized coaching and candid feedback are provided throughout.
Rooted in psychology, neuroscience, philosophy, couples therapy, personal branding, and spirituality, the course delivers practical skills, transformative tools, and valuable insights for real, lasting change.
The benefits extend beyond your love life. The skills and self-awareness you gain support growth in all areas of life.
This course draws from real-life lessons – my mistakes, insights, and experiences from dating, marriage, and divorce. By sharing these stories, I offer genuine support and authenticity to help you grow on your journey.
Here, we dig deep to uncover hidden barriers to love and explore big life questions like:
Am I repeating patterns from childhood or past relationships? Am I holding onto past hurts or unresolved trauma that make it hard to trust or be vulnerable? Do I seek validation from others instead of finding it within?
What was it like growing up in your family ― what was normal, unique, different, or difficult? If the next several years are a defining chapter in your life, what is that chapter about? How has what you do for a living shaped who you’ve become?
Anticipated Transformations
You’ll clarify your needs, values, and desires, and uncover habits, behaviors, and recurring patterns that may have or will hold you back. You’ll assess your readiness for commitment and reflect on what you truly want ― and don’t want ― in future relationships.
You’ll learn to spot red flags, recognize emotional unavailability, and make mindful choices rather than acting on impulse. You’ll commit to pursuing only those connections that truly align with your standards.
When you honor your mind, vet your heart, trust your gut, and manage your emotions ― love follows. It can’t help itself. Knowing who’s right and wrong for you becomes your guiding compass.
To be truly seen, heard, and understood by a partner, who makes you feel safe, loved, and valued ― is priceless.
Ready for Authentic Connection?
Coming early 2026 to Charlotte: “I DO! + Mixer-ology Duo,” an exclusive, app-free singles experience designed just for you. As you journey through I DO!, you’ll have the chance to meet like-minded singles at the exclusive Mixer-ology gatherings.
The Invitation: Mixer-ology ― Sip. Reflect. Connect.
Mixer-ology is a private, safe in-person gathering I host, exclusively for I DO! “insiders.” Each gathering is intimate – just six to eight men and women – where we mix, mingle, and dive into honest, engaging conversations about dating, love, and the unpredictable nature of attraction!
Cocktails and mocktails in hand, we explore thought-provoking topics like attachment styles, emotional skills, love languages, taking smart risks in romance: red flags, green lights, personal branding in dating, and more.
With stories shared and unexpected insights revealed, you might find new friendships — or maybe even a spark as glasses clink! Vulnerability is celebrated, and phones stay out of sight so everyone can truly connect.
If you’d rather focus on personal growth or live outside Charlotte, you’re welcome to participate in the “I DO!” Syllabus solo. The combined “I DO! + Mixer-ology Duo” experience is exclusively for I DO! insiders attending in-person events in Charlotte.
The Course Investment
Investing in yourself is the heart of every fulfilling relationship. Personal growth boosts self-worth and guides wiser partner choices, laying the foundation for lasting relationships. The “I DO!” Syllabus packages start at $1,950; Mixer-ology gatherings are priced separately.
Ready for a transformative experience?
Take a bold shot! Experience a complimentary eXpresso Yourself consultation. Let’s grab a cup and explore which “I DO!” path is right for you ― Syllabus solo or Mixer-ology Duo. If you have questions, we’ll address them. You can reach me here.
Every life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities. Let’s discover yours together!