Love

The LOVE Niche for Singles

Are you single and searching for real, lasting love?

The LOVE Niche for Singles is a vibrant, inclusive community of like-minded men and women ― single, divorced, or widowed ― brought together by a shared search for authentic connection and the desire to find lasting love.

They’re on a transformative journey, moving beyond fleeting connections to something deeper. If you’re frustrated by the dating scene or tired of settling for less, you’re not alone.

Commitment here means intentionally seeking “your person” ― but first, it’s about self-discovery through two core pillars:

The I DO! Self Syllabus: A holistic, one-on-one proven master course in self-discovery ― an immersive, guided journey to understanding yourself from the inside out: the good, the bad, the ego. This is a step-by-step process that goes beyond surface-level self-reflection.

While embarking on your personal journey with I DO!, you’ll have the opportunity to put those insights into practice at Mixer-ology, an exclusive, private, social learning mixer debuting January 2026 in Charlotte ― a no dating apps, screen-free space.

As your host, cocktails and mocktails are stirred, while blending lively discussions about dating, love, and our humanity ― each conversation contributing to our collective journey of learning, growing, and evolving.

The result?

A one-of-a-kind synergistic experience where preparation meets opportunity!

The combination of I DO!’ + Mixer-ology is built on the idea that genuine, lasting love starts with understanding yourself. This means taking an honest look inward to identify the patterns, habits, and beliefs that may be keeping you from love.

As you move through this journey, you’ll meet other men and women who are also exploring and growing. You’ll share stories, insights, and aha moments together — creating a space where it feels safe to be vulnerable and show up as yourself.

Along the way, real friendships form, making space for deeper relationships — perhaps igniting a spark over the clink of glasses!

Invest in yourself, redefine your approach to love, and bring your best love story to life.

Ready to dive deeper?  

Asking revealing questions like, “Would I marry ME?” or “Am I the red flag I warn my friends about?” can spark an awakening ― prompting us to  confront truths about ourselves instead of noticing others’ flaws.

Being single brings freedom and possibilities, but sometimes being alone is the hardest part. If you’ve faced difficult news, mourned a beloved pet, or celebrated momentous occasions ― by yourself ― you know the ache. I do, too.

That ache, and those quiet moments of solitude, are what inspired me to create and build this niche. The experience of loneliness deeply touched my heart, mind, and soul, ultimately fueling my commitment to help others navigate this journey.

Yet, many people shy away from this challenge. They convince themselves that the good ones are taken, the dating pool has baggage, the effort isn’t worth it, the timing is off, or that their career, pet, friends, family, social activities are enough.

I get it. But all too often, the real reasons aren’t external. They lie within ourselves.

The chance to be truly seen, heard, and understood, and to share life with a loving partner who makes us feel safe, loved, and valued is priceless.

The Invitation: I DO! Self Syllabus: Learn. Grow. Evolve.

I DO! guides you through an in-depth exploration over two to three months, delivered both in person and virtually. It includes self-reflective and skill-building exercises, comprehensive assessments, and customized coaching paired with candid, constructive feedback.

The curriculum draws from psychology, neuroscience, philosophy, therapy, as well as personal branding. It weaves in the wisdom I’ve gained through my own journey ― marriage, divorce, dating, and all the mistakes, setbacks, and successes that have shaped my understanding of what it takes to grow and evolve as a person and in a partnership.

It’s designed for those truly seeking love ― beginning with self-discovery, than taking action based on that self-awareness.

Here’s what Tom, a 48-year-old entrepreneur shared:

“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! I refer to her as a ‘bad-ass coach’ because she’ll be fiercely committed to your success and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you may want to hear.”

Hearing from clients like Tom reminds us that real growth begins with honest self-examination.

Vulnerability isn’t weakness; it’s the door to transformation. 

Here, we dig deep to uncover hidden barriers to love with revealing questions like:

Am I repeating patterns from childhood or past relationships? Am I holding onto past hurts or unresolved trauma that make it hard to trust or be vulnerable? Do I seek validation from others instead of finding it within?

In keeping with a holistic approach, we’ll explore life’s bigger questions like:

Take me back to when you were born. What was it like growing up in your family? If the next three years is a defining chapter in your life, what is that chapter about? What is the unique gift you offer the world? 

Anticipated Transformations

You’ll clarify your needs and values, assess your readiness for commitment, and reflect on what you truly want ― and don’t want ― in future relationships.

You’ll learn to spot red flags, recognize emotional unavailability, and make mindful choices rather than acting on impulse. You’ll commit to pursuing only those connections that truly align with those standards.

You’ll deepen connections and self-awareness in all areas of your life, not just in romance.

When you honor your mind, vet your heart, trust your gut, and manage your emotions ― love follows. It can’t help itself. Knowing who’s right and wrong for you becomes your guiding compass.

Introducing Mixer-ology: Sip. Reflect. Connect.

Mixer-ology, debuting January 2026 in Charlotte, is a private, intimate social learning gathering where I DO! participants mingle and connect in a fun, safe, and judgment-free space.

Enjoy hand-crafted cocktails or mocktails and genuine conversation ― no dating apps or screens, just authentic connections with real people. No ice-breakers or games — just genuine people coming together, looking and bringing their best to every gathering.

As your host, I guide thought-provoking conversations on the real issues singles face in today’s modern romance ― from uncovering your dominate attachment style to letting go of relationship residue to the principles of personal branding.

And who knows? You may find a sip of romance or flourishing new friendship as we share real stories, ah-ha moments bubbling up, or new insights in a welcoming, confidential setting.

The Course Investment

Investing in yourself is the foundation for every relationship. Personal growth strengthens self-worth, informs wiser partner choices, and leads to lasting relationships.

I DO! delivered over two to three months starts at $1,650. A special package is available through December 31, 2025. Limited spaces are available; see me for details.

Mixer-ology events are priced separately.

Take the Next Step: Are You Ready?

So, back to the question, “Would I marry ME?” After this journey, the answer is a confident “Yes!” and a fearless “I DO!”― committing to become the best ME and best future partner. And as for the question, “Am I the red flag I warn my friends about?, rest assured; no red flags!

If you’re curious to learn more, give “Espresso Yourself with Cindy!” a shot. It’s a complimentary coffee and conversation ― my treat! I’m here to support you and share how this experience can help you bring your best love story to life.

I’d love to grab a cup and chat. You can reach me here.

Every life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities. Let’s discover yours together!