Love
The LOVE Niche for Singles
What if life found you single — not as a problem to solve, but an opportunity to create?
Regardless of whether a divorce, loss, or breakup was yesterday or years have gone by, you may find yourself redefining everything, including your vision for love.
Would you dare to ask a rarely posed, provocative question:
Would I Marry Me…?
If your answer is “Yes,” you may point to meaningful achievements in your career, health, family, wealth, fitness, or other milestones. Yet, you may still wonder: Why haven’t I found a lasting connection?
If your answer is “No,” you may feel at a loss for where to begin.
This is where the Self Syllabus becomes your most trusted ally.
The Self Syllabus is a heartfelt invitation to nurture and deepen your most authentic love relationships. Through a carefully structured journey of self-discovery — you’ll harness the transformative power of self-awareness as the catalyst for genuine connection.
It’s a process I’ve meticulously shaped and refined, grounded in the conviction that lasting connection starts with your relationship to yourself — long before it’s found in someone else.
Building The LOVE niche for Singles and the Self Syllabus, stands as my most personal, intimate, and tirelessly rewarding pursuit. At my core, I truly believe no one needs to be still single and alone — unless that’s their genuine choice.
We’re wired for meaningful relationships, and we thrive when deeply connected. The staggering number of singles today shows how easily we can miss the mark — and it’s become my heartfelt mission to help others find the way.
Reflecting on relationship patterns: Questions for deep discovery.
The syllabus acts as a mirror, reflecting your relationship history, attitudes, and patterns. Through introspective methods, we dive into key questions that surface hidden insights and help you forge real change:
What shaped your upbringing? What messages did you receive about guilt or shame? Do you avoid conflict? Have you ever lost yourself in relationships without considering their impact on your values and purpose? Have you chosen partners that were emotionally unhealthy or unavailable?
Do you feel incomplete alone? How often have you let yourself be swept away by infatuation? How have you handled rejection, and are you clear about personal boundaries? Are you vulnerable to those who seem perfect for you but aren’t? Can you self-regulate your emotions?
As you reflect on these questions, you may find others rising up, revealing new avenues for growth and self-discovery.
Be your own best matchmaker.
By fully immersing yourself in the syllabus, you’ll develop the skills to respect your intellect, vet your heart, trust your gut, and realize that unregulated hormones are idiotic! As a result, you’ll have a risk-management strategy to avoid the common mistakes made when dating.
Given that a romantic commitment is one of the most consequential investments you’ll ever make, why gamble on the wrong one?
Many of us are unaware of the invisible forces driving our actions, choices, and judgments. The Self Syllabus makes them visible.
Is this work challenging? Yes. But the ROI is priceless!
I understand the struggles and heartaches firsthand. I’ve made plenty of mistakes in marriage, divorce, and dating, learned from them, and apply these lessons in my own life and in the journeys of countless others.
In this way, the Self Syllabus isn’t just a master course — it’s a path to becoming the kind of person you’d choose over and over again. This isn’t driven by ego, but by knowing your self-worth and never compromising it.
Every experience, even the most challenging and heartbreaking, has brought you to this point. Your greatest love still awaits — not in the past, but just ahead.
Mixing cocktails, mocktails, mindfulness, and matching.
Welcome to Mixer-ology! where we spice up social learning with a unique twist. This spirited space adds a fresh flavor to the Self Syllabus, connecting like-minded men and women enjoying cocktails or mocktails while mixing and mingling.
You’ll participate in stimulating discussions on thought-provoking relationship topics, led by me, where we strive to better understand our gender differences and the complexities of modern romance.
Stories unify. Matches ignite. Lives transform.
Here’s several topics sure to get your attention:
Attachment Theory 101: You think you know what you want, but you’re wrong.
Past relationship residue is highly unattractive. Let it go.
Women often overlook good men, and good men can struggle to attract women.
What are high-functioning relationships and why they’re essential?
A man’s actions are the key variable that determines whether a relationship succeeds or fails.
Look the part to get the part. Makeovers matter.
Men need more than a lazy-boy, 75-inch TV, remotes, and French onion dip and chips!
Why does it take women so long to buy a pair of shoes?
And so, we return to the rarely posed, provocative question: Would I marry me…?
Those who’ve intentionally engaged with the Self Syllabus can answer with pride: ‘Absolutely — I’d marry me!’
What a participant had to say.
“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! She’s been by my side in both personal and professional development for years. I refer to her as a ‘bad-ass coach’ because she’ll be fiercely committed to your success and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you may want to hear. I can’t imagine where I’d be without her expertise, guidance, and unwavering support.” — T.P.
Shall we begin? Why wait?
If you’d like to learn more, I’d love to hear from you. I offer a complimentary conversation to answer any questions you may have, share the investment, and see how I can best help. You can reach me here.
Every LOVE life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities!