Love
Be Your Own Best Matchmaker
Find Your Self. Find Your Person.
Who isn’t weary from endless swiping, searching, and somehow still single?
Modern dating can be a wild ride ― think rollercoasters, blindfolded mazes, or magic tricks― full of twists, turns, uncertainty, and illusions!
Yet there’s an exit ramp!
LOVE Niche for Singles is a unique, refreshing, and unconventional space I created where we choose ourselves first ― instead of chasing love.
I DO! Self Syllabus
I DO! is LOVE Niche’s holistic, one-on-one, self-discovery guide to build a solid self-awareness foundation. It’s framework includes reflective exercises, assessment tools, and personalized coaching, delivered over several months, either in person or remotely.
Here, we turn inward, look into the mirror, and ask a bold, honest question: Would I marry ME…?
At the heart of I DO! lies this very question. Lasting love evolves from truly knowing ourselves ― the good, the bad, and the EGO. By exploring the values, behaviors, and patterns that shape us, we see more clearly what we bring to a relationship and how we choose a right (or wrong) partner.
An Upcoming Singles I DO! + Mixer-ology
This is an intimate, lively, learning-focused gathering in Charlotte ― optional and exclusive for I DO! participants. Here, these like-minded men and women mingle face-to-face. No social media!
As host, I guide engaging discussions about dating, love, and relationships. While cocktails or mocktails are poured, insights flow, connections form ― and as glasses clink, sparks may fly!
Through I DO!, I DO change lives. It’s my passion! I offer singles a one-on-one, rich “Latte Listen” coffee coaching chat ― it’s my treat! If interested, you can reach me here.
Curious to Learn More? Let’s Dive in…
Real-world Experience
With 25 years as a personal development coach, the I DO! guide blends psychology, philosophy, spirituality, neuroscience, and personal branding in an experiential process that’s practical and transformative.
My greatest motivation for founding and developing the LOVE Niche for Singles is my deep passion and obsession for what I’ve created. I’ve lived every step of the I DO! journey, and truly understand the ups and downs, and hopes of seeking a thriving, lasting relationship.
My guidance is grounded in certified training and personal experience ― single, married, and divorced — so you get support that’s authentic, direct, and honest.
“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! I refer to her as my ‘bad-ass coach’ because she will tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you may want to hear.” ―T.P.
You’re not alone ― I’m by your side every step of the way.
Unapologetically Exploring Truths
Here, asking honest self-reflection questions invite meaningful dialogue and deeper understanding, such as:
Am I repeating patterns from childhood or past relationships? Am I holding onto past hurts or unresolved trauma that make it hard to trust or be vulnerable? Do I seek validation from others instead of finding it within?
What was it like growing up in your family ― normal, different, unique, challenging? Why are you here? What were you put on earth to do? If the next three years is a defining chapter, what is that chapter about?
Anticipated Transformations
You’ll discover your core needs, values, and aspirations, letting go of self-limiting beliefs along the way.
This journey guides you to balance and fulfillment across well-being, relationships, spirituality, play, work, and finances.
You’ll stop wasting energy on what you can’t control and pursue relationships where you’re genuinely seen, heard, and valued.
By honoring your mind, opening your heart, trusting your gut, and managing your impulses, you allow love to flow effortlessly, guided by discernment as your steady compass.
How I DO! + Mixer-ology Experiences Come to Life
Once participating in I DO!, you’ll have the option of attending exclusive Mixer-ology gatherings — intimate, lively, face-to-face connections ― free from digital distractions.
I connect personally with every participant, thoughtfully bringing together men and women based on shared values, interests, and life experiences. My intuition and experience help spark meaningful, like-minded connections — so much so that some have called me the “undercover matchmaker!”
With a cocktail or mocktail in hand, we explore subjects like attachment styles, the dynamics of dating, emotional intelligence, personal branding, and modern makeovers (which I excel in and also include home environments) — plus plenty more.
And of course, we keep things light and entertaining ― sharing laughs about why men need more than a recliner, TV, and onion dip and chips, or why women’s quest for the perfect shoes become an epic quest!
As glasses clink and laughter flows, insights are shared, connections made― and who knows… sparks may fly!
The Investment
Investing in yourself lays the groundwork for every relationship you build. Personal development enhances your self-worth, sharpens your choice of partners, and leads to real, lasting love.
I DO! offers two distinct coaching packages for you to consider: Immersion One, focused on Inner Core Exercises, and Immersion Two, which builds upon that with social science Assessment Tools. I’m happy to share pricing details when we connect. Mixer-ology gatherings are priced separately.
The Next Step
Through I DO!, I DO change lives. It’s my passion! I offer singles a one-on-one, rich “Latte Listen” coffee coaching chat ― my treat! If interested, you can reach me here.
Every life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities.