Love
A Man’s Greatest Adventure: LOVE
The words “I love you” are the most vulnerable a man can express to a woman. And yes, she will confuse you. Challenge you. Sometimes break you, and she will heal you.
Women are a man’s link to the world and to life itself.
Love, being the most powerful force in the world, brings out the best in a man when in a loving, intimate, and life-enhancing relationship.
Yet if “happily ever after” ends in a breakup, divorce, or loss, how prepared are most men to navigate this significant transition?
The greatest adventure often turns into the greatest mystery as they strive to understand the reasons, learn from the experience, and figure out how to move forward, no matter how much time has passed.
Welcome to the LOVE niche for men.
As a coach in the personal development field for 25 years, I advocate for men’s relationship success as they seek another chance at love.
I’ve built a unique space for openly sharing and discussing your past relationship patterns, actions, and mistakes. This helps you intentionally manage your love life moving forward.
Start by taking a break from dating by deleting all dating apps and subscriptions, avoiding casual relationships, as you commit to focusing fully without distractions.
You’ll work through the Self Syllabus, a comprehensive self-development masterclass featuring self-reflective exercises, assessments, on-going coaching, and a diverse range of resources across three modules:
Look Under Your Hood.
This module is absolutely critical. Consider it a superpower. Unless you do the inner work — knowing how you’re wired, what makes you tick, and identify and overcome obstacles, what’s the point?
Build Your Brand.
Capturing a woman’s attention within seconds is essential. Skillful verbal communication, showcasing value, and maximizing attractiveness potential, both in person and online, is key. Perceptions are everything, so everything counts.
Date for Keeps.
No man should venture into romance without a risk-management roadmap before dating. Learn how to wisely vet prospective partners, and detect red flags, infatuation, and emotional impulses — before they irrationally derail you.
Successfully working through each module will help you become happier, purposeful, value-driven, and inspired. You’ll raise your standards, expect more from yourself, and from the women you choose to bring into your life.
How the LOVE Niche for Men came to be.
Years ago, while driving to an event volunteering for a women’s resource center, my then eight-year-old son asked, “Mom, is there a resource center for men?” I had to say no, there wasn’t.
That one simple question sparked a timely idea that stayed with me. I studied men through various mediums and interviewed them on dating and relationship challenges. I also heard women’s frustrations about dating men and their desire for them to be more self-aware and emotionally intelligent.
My own experiences with marriage, broken engagements, and divorce led me to take a dating break and create the process I now guide men through. Today, I can proudly say, “Yes, men do have a resource center!”, as I humbly walk alongside them as they change, grow, and evolve!
What a participant had to say.
“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! She’s been by my side in both personal and professional development for years. I refer to her as a ‘bad-ass coach’ because she’ll be fiercely committed to your success and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you may want to hear. I can’t imagine where I’d be without her expertise, guidance, and unwavering support.” — T.P.
Men’s real stories reflections and questions.
As these men searched for answers, perhaps their questions have something in common with your own…
George: “My long-term marriage ended. I’ve neglected myself and feel average, bland, and boring. How do I start over?”
Feeling uncertain about dating after a long time is normal. George’s lack of confidence makes him feel like he’s venturing into a foreign country without a map!
Sam: “My wife’s affair devastated me. I wish I could remove the hurt and pain. How can I start healing?”
Sam, struggling with his wife’s infidelity, overlooks deeper issues. His charm and good looks attracts women, but he risks sabotaging new relationships.
Paul: “I met someone I’m quite fond of, but my past divorce issues worry me. How can I get past these worries?”
Paul was aware his unresolved issues might resurface, likely to cause more emotional pain. It’s important to investigate for how to break unhealthy patterns.
Bob: “After my wife passed, I wonder if I’m being disloyal if I found someone? How do I stop feeling this way?”
Bob relied on his marriage for identity, connections, and daily interactions. After 30 years of marriage, he lacked dating experience and conflict resolution skills.
John: “I moved and left most furniture with my ex. I want my living space to have more than a recliner and 75-inch TV?”
Where’s the French Onion dip and chips?! Men often ignore their living space, but it can be crucial for their wellbeing, confidence, and making a good first impression when they start entertaining.
In closing.
Thank you for reading about the LOVE niche for men. I leave you with this final thought…
The love of your life is not in your past. She’s waiting for you in the future.
Every life experience and every past relationship, even the most painful and difficult, have prepared you for this moment.
So let’s get started!
If you’d like to learn more, I’d love to hear from you. I offer a complimentary conversation to answer any questions you may have, share the investment options, and see how I can best help. You can reach me here.
Every LOVE life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities!