Love

The LOVE Niche for Singles

Are you single and searching for real, lasting love?

The LOVE Niche for Singles is a vibrant, welcoming community of like-minded men and women of all ages and life stages ― whether single, divorced, or rebuilding after a love loss.

Here, we’re on a transformative journey, moving beyond fleeting connections to something deeper. If you’re frustrated by the dating scene or tired of settling for less, you’re not alone.

Commitment here means intentionally seeking “your person” ― but first, it’s about self-discovery.

The I DO! Self Syllabus is a one-on-one proven master course guiding you to know yourself deeply, from the inside out: the good, the bad, the ego ― while uncovering the patterns, habits, and beliefs that block your path to love.

Mixer-ology, debuting in January 2026, is a private, social learning mixer in Charlotte where like-minded Syllabus participants mingle and connect in an intimate, fun, and save space― a no screen zone.

As your host, cocktails and mocktails are stirred while we pour over conversations on dating, love, and our humanity ― learning, growing, and evolving both individually and collectively.

The result?

With this combined synergy, participants experience a lively setting where preparation meets opportunity. Authentic connections are formed, paving the way for meaningful relationships ― and who knows, maybe a spark of romance over the click of glasses!

Invest in yourself, redefine your approach to love, and start writing your best love story yet.

Ready to dive deeper?  

Asking questions like, “Would I marry ME?” or “Am I the red flag I warn my friends about?” can spark an awakening ― prompting us to  confront truths about ourselves instead of noticing others’ flaws.

Being single brings freedom and possibilities, but sometimes being alone is the hardest part. If you’ve faced difficult news, mourned a beloved pet, or celebrated momentous occasions ― by yourself ― you know the ache. I do, too.

This is where I’ve poured my heart, mind, and soul. No one need be single and alone if that isn’t their true desire.

Yet, many people shy away from this challenge. It’s demanding. It’s hard work. They convince themselves that the good ones are taken, the dating pool has baggage, the effort isn’t worth it, the timing is off, or that their career, pet, friends, family, social activities are enough.

I get it. But all too often, the real reasons aren’t external. They lie within ourselves.

Real, intimate connection matters ― to be truly seen, heard, and understood, and to share life with a loving partner who makes us feel safe, loved, and valued ― is priceless.

Enter the I DO! Self Syllabus: Learn. Grow. Evolve.

The Syllabus guides you through in-depth exploration over three to four months, delivered both in person and virtually. It includes self-reflective and skill-building exercises, comprehensive assessments, and customized coaching paired with candid, constructive feedback.

The curriculum draws from psychology, neuroscience, philosophy, therapy, as well as personal branding. It weaves in the wisdom I’ve gained through my own journey ― marriage, divorce, dating, and all the mistakes, setbacks, and successes that have shaped my understanding of what it takes to grow and evolve as a person and in a partnership.

It’s designed for those truly seeking love ― beginning with self-discovery, than taking action based on that self-awareness.

Here’s what Tom, a 48-year-old entrepreneur shared:

“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! I refer to her as a ‘bad-ass coach’ because she’ll be fiercely committed to your success and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you may want to hear.”

Hearing from clients like Tom reminds us that real growth begins with honest self-examination.

Vulnerability isn’t weakness; it’s the door to transformation. 

Here, we dig deep to uncover hidden barriers to love with revealing questions like:

Am I repeating patterns from childhood or past relationships? Am I holding onto past hurts or unresolved trauma that make it hard to trust or be vulnerable? Do I seek validation from others instead of finding it within?

In keeping with a holistic approach, we’ll explore big life questions such as:

Take me back to when you were born. What was it like growing up in your family? If the next three years is a defining chapter in your life, what is that chapter about? Are you facing a crossroad, and how so? What are you doing when you feel totally alive?

Anticipated Transformations

You’ll clarify your needs and values, assess your readiness for commitment, and reflect on what you truly want ― and don’t want ― in future relationships.

You’ll learn to spot red flags, recognize emotional unavailability, and make mindful choices rather than acting on impulse.

You’ll understand what defines a highly functioning relationship and commit to pursuing only those connections that truly align with those standards.

When you honor your mind, vet your heart, trust your gut, and manage your emotions ― love follows. It can’t help itself. Knowing who’s right and wrong for you becomes your guiding compass.

The added benefit from your commitment to this course will deepen connections and self-awareness in all areas of your life, not just in romance.

Introducing Mixer-ology: Sip. Reflect. Connect.

Mixer-ology, debuting in January 2026, is a private, social learning mixer in Charlotte where Syllabus participants have a sense of curiosity and determination to grow as a person ― serious about finding real, lasting love.

They’ll mix and mingle in a lively, safe, and judgment-free space, enjoying hand-crafted cocktails and mocktails ― mingling face to face, no dating apps or screens. Mixers are designed to be intimate with six or eight attendees.

As your host, I guide openminded conversations on the issues singles face in today’s modern romance. No ice breakers ― just genuine men and women eager to engage, converse, and connect ― sharing real stories, ah-ha moments, and fresh insights in a welcoming, confidential setting.

Full disclosure: Mixer-ology participants are genuinely single and unattached, actively seeking lasting love. This means they’re not involved in casual relationships: friends-with-benefits, or any on-again, off-again situations.

The Course Investment

Investing in yourself is the foundation for every relationship. Personal growth strengthens self-worth, informs wiser partner choices, and leads to lasting partnerships. The Syllabus delivered over three to four months, starts at $2,500. Mixer-ology events are priced separately.

Take the Next Step: Are You Ready?

So, back to the question: “Would I marry ME?” After this journey, your answer will be a confident “I DO!”. And for those wondering, “Am I the red flag I warn my friends about?” ― rest assured, we’ve identified and addressed any red flags head-on!

Let’s connect for a coffee and consultation ― on the house! I’m here to support you and share how this experience can help you bring your best love story to life.

I’d love to hear from you. You can reach me here.

Every life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities!