Love

The LOVE Niche for Singles

Are you single and searching for real, lasting love?

The LOVE Niche for Singles is an inclusive, immersive journey of self-discovery, thoughtfully curated for men and women who are single, divorced, or widowed ― united by a shared desire for authentic connection and genuine lasting love.

Whether you’re starting fresh, healing from a heartbreak, or moving forward after a loss, it’s normal to wonder if all the good ones are gone or to feel discouraged by a dating pool full of unresolved baggage.

Sometimes, it’s easier to stay busy with work, pets, and friends, hoping the ache will fade ― but the longing for true  connection remains.

Here, commitment means purposefully seeking “your person.” But the first step on that journey is anchored by two interwoven pillars:

The “I DO!” Syllabus: A holistic, one-on-one mastery course in self-discovery ― an experience I’ve intentionally created, shaped, and guide. It’s an in-depth process to understand yourself from the inside out: the good, the bad, the ego. This leads to deeper self-awareness and clarity when vetting potential partners. Offered both in-person and remotely to fit preferences.

Mixer-ology: An exclusive, private social learning gathering open only to “I DO!” insiders to mix, mingle and connect in an intimate, lively, and refreshingly screen-free zone ― no apps, no phones, no judging. Cocktails or mocktails are stirred as I host and invite “straight-up” honest conversations about dating, love, and our humanness. Debuting in Charlotte in January 2026.

The result?

A one-of-a-kind synergistic experience where coaching, support, and preparation meet opportunity. You’ll invest in yourself, reimagine your path to love, and ― who knows ― as mindful connections form and glasses clink, sparks may fly!

Finding a partner who truly sees, hears, and understands us — making us feel safe, loved, and valued — is priceless. This  immersive experience lays the foundation for that kind of authentic connection.

Ready to dive deeper?

Take the next step toward real connection.

The Invitation: The “I DO!” Syllabus ― Learn. Grow. Evolve.

How often do singles searching for love, actually think to ask: “Would I marry ME?” or “Am I the red flag I warn my friends about?” Instead, most tend to focus on the flaws of others, not realizing that the real reasons for relationship challenges often lie within ourselves.

The I DO! Syllabus turns this perspective inward, encouraging honest self-assessment, over the course of about two months. You’ll engage in self-reflective exercises, take assessments covering behavior, motivation, and emotional intelligence assessments, and receive personal coaching with candid feedback.

The emphasis is on uncovering recurring patterns, behaviors, and habits that may be blocking love, while identifying strengths and areas for growth.

This practical curriculum is grounded in psychology, neuroscience, philosophy, couples therapy, personal branding, and my real-life experience and wisdom. It provides actionable skills, tools and insights for genuine change — no fluff, just real results. .

Here’s what Tom, a 48-year-old entrepreneur shared:

“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! I refer to her as a ‘bad-ass coach’ because she’ll be fiercely committed to your success and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you may want to hear.”

Hearing from clients like Tom reminds us that real growth begins with honest self-examination.

Here, we dig deep to uncover hidden barriers to love with revealing questions like:

Am I repeating patterns from childhood or past relationships? Am I holding onto past hurts or unresolved trauma that make it hard to trust or be vulnerable? Do I seek validation from others instead of finding it within?

In keeping with a holistic approach, we’ll explore life’s bigger questions like:

Take me back to when you were born. What was it like growing up in your family? If the next three years is a defining chapter in your life, what is that chapter about? What is the unique gift you offer the world? 

Anticipated Transformations

You’ll clarify your needs and values, assess your readiness for commitment, and reflect on what you truly want ― and don’t want ― in future relationships.

You’ll learn to spot red flags, recognize emotional unavailability, and make mindful choices rather than acting on impulse. You’ll commit to pursuing only those connections that truly align with those standards.

You’ll deepen connections and self-awareness in all areas of your life, not just in romance.

When you honor your mind, vet your heart, trust your gut, and manage your emotions ― love follows. It can’t help itself. Knowing who’s right and wrong for you becomes your guiding compass.

The Invitation: Mixer-ology ― Sip. Reflect. Connect.

Mixer-ology, debuting in Charlotte, NC in January, 2026, are intimate social learning gathering, usually six to eight attendees: a mix of men and women. With cocktail or mocktail in hand — I facilitate meaningful conversations about dating, love, and what it means to be human.

This isn’t about swiping through a dating app or scrolling social media. There are no ice-breakers or games — just real people coming together, looking their best and bringing their best selves to every gathering.

We openly address the real challenges singles face in today’s dating world, such as discovering your dominant attachment style, letting go of relationship residue, understanding how men’s actions can determine if a relationship succeeds or fails, exploring outer makeovers, and embracing personal branding.

And keeping it light, why men need more than a recliner, TV, onion dip and chips! And why it takes women so long to buy shoes!

And who knows? You may find a flourishing new friendship or sip of romance or as we share real stories, ah-ha moments, or new insights!

The Combination: “I DO!” + Mixer-ology  

This unique pairing offers an exceptional opportunity to connect with like-minded men and women who share a genuine desire for lasting, authentic relationships. Through this experience, you’ll engage in meaningful self-reflection, allowing you to to uncover patterns, behaviors, and beliefs that may be holding you back from finding true love.

As you continue your personal development growth journey with I DO!, you also have the change to mix and mingle at Mixer-ology gatherings. They’re designed to bring together fellow I DO! insiders, all on the same journey within a relaxed, confidential, and judgment-free atmosphere that’s both fun and supportive.

The Course Investment

Investing in yourself is the foundation for every relationship. Personal growth strengthens self-worth, informs wiser partner choices, and leads to lasting relationships. The “I DO!” Syllabus packages start at $1,950. Mixer-ology events are priced separately.

Take the Next Step: Are You Ready?

So, back to the question, “Would I marry ME?” After this journey, the answer is a confident “Yes!” and a fearless “I DO!”― committing to become the best ME and best future partner. And as for the question, “Am I the red flag I warn my friends about?, rest assured, no red flags – just green lights ahead!

Take a shot! Experience a complimentary eXpresso Ur Self consultation ― let’s grab a cup and chat as you share the journey that’s brought you here. You can reach me here.

Every life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities. Let’s discover yours together!