Love
Be Your Own Best Matchmaker
Find Your Self. Find Your Person.
Who isn’t weary from endless swiping, searching, and yet ― still ending up single?
Let’s be honest: modern dating is a wild ride. It’s hard, sometimes hilarious, and often confusing. If you’re a fan of escape rooms, tightrope walks, or game shows, dating’s just as unpredictable!
The LOVE Niche for Singles offers an exit ramp from the usual dating chaos.
It shifts the focus from searching for love outside to building a strong, self-aware foundation inside. If already partnered, this niche is just as powerful, whether participating individually or together.
It’s a safe, introspective space where singles ― unmarried, divorced, or widowed ― confront bold, honest questions that few of us even dream about asking: Would I marry ME? ― Am I the red flag I warn my friends about?
The Self Syllabus ― I DO!
“Under Cindy’s dynamic influence, I’m a different person, but more myself than ever.”―D.S.
I DO! is a holistic, one-on-one self-discovery journey, built on a promise to deeply examine how “the good, the bad, and the EGO” shape our romantic lives ― for better or for worse.
This process includes interactive exercises, assessment tools, personalized coaching and feedback, and spans over several months. It’s available both in-person or remotely.
When we break recurring patterns, own our “stuff”, and reconnect with who we truly are, everything changes. Life brightens. Love deepens. Leadership shines.
An Intimate Singles Set-Up ― Face-to-Face Only
I DO! + Mixer-ology is an upcoming, fun, lively, social setting in Charlotte ― optional and exclusive for I DO! participants. Here, like-minded men and women meet and mingle. No social media.
As host, I guide engaging discussions about dating, romance, and relationships. While cocktails or mocktails are poured, insights flow, connections form ― and as glasses clink, sparks may fly!
Experience a Transformative Opportunity
I’m inviting a small, select group of open-minded, open-hearted men and women eager to be part of the inaugural I DO! + Mixer-ology (special launch insentive).
If you’re ready for meaningful personal growth, this could be the start of something extraordinary. If this invitation resonates, take a shot with an eXpresso Your Self coffee consultation ― my treat! You can reach me here.
Curious to Learn More?
Dive in to explore the full spectrum of both I DO! + Mixer-ology.
Real-world Relationship Experience
“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! I refer to her as my ‘bad-ass coach’ because she will tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you may want to hear.” ―D.S.
With 25 years as a personal development coach, the I DO! curriculum blends psychology, philosophy, spirituality, neuroscience, and personal branding in an experiential process that’s practical and transformative.
My guidance is grounded in certified training and personal experience ― single, married, and divorced — so you get support that’s authentic, direct, and honest.
I’ve lived every step of the I DO! journey, given that I developed it, and truly understand the ups and downs, and hopes of seeking a thriving, lasting relationship.
You’re not alone ― I’m by your side every step of the way.
Unapologetically Exploring Truths
Here, asking honest self-reflection questions invite meaningful dialogue and deeper understanding, such as:
Am I repeating patterns from childhood or past relationships? Am I holding onto past hurts or unresolved trauma that make it hard to trust or be vulnerable? Do I seek validation from others instead of finding it within?
What was it like growing up in your family ― normal, different, unique, challenging? Why are you here? What were you put on earth to do? If the next three years is a defining chapter, what is that chapter about?
Anticipated Transformations
You’ll discover your core needs, values, and aspirations, letting go of self-limiting beliefs along the way.
This journey guides you to balance and fulfillment across well-being, relationships, spirituality, play, work, and finances.
You’ll stop wasting energy on what you can’t control and pursue relationships where you’re genuinely seen, heard, and valued.
By honoring your mind, trusting your heart and gut, and managing your emotions, you let love flow naturally, using discernment as your guiding compass.
How I DO! + Mixer-ology Experiences Unfold
Once participating in I DO!, you’ll have the option of attending exclusive Mixer-ology gatherings — intimate, fun, lively, and face-to-face ― away from all digital distractions.
I personally connect with each person, bringing together men and women based on shared values, interests, and experiences. My insight and intuition help spark meaningful, like-minded connections — some even calling me the “undercover matchmaker!”
With cocktails or mocktails in hand, we dive into topics like attachment styles, dating dynamics, emotional intelligence, personal branding, modern makeovers, and more.
Of course, we keep things light and fun too ― laughing about why men need more than a recliner, TV, and onion dip and chips, and why women’s quest for the perfect shoes takes so long!
As glasses clink, insights flow, connections form ― and who knows… sparks may fly!
The Investment
Investing in yourself is the foundation for every relationship. Personal growth strengthens self-worth, informs wiser partner choices, and leads to real, lasting relationships.
I DO! offers two pricing packages for you to consider, so you can choose the one that best suits your needs. Mixer-ology gatherings are priced separately.
The Next Step
Take a shot with an eXpresso Your Self coffee consultation― my treat! I’d love to hear about you and answer any questions you may have. You can reach me here.
Every life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities.