Love
BE YOUR OWN BEST MATCHMAKER
Mirror, mirror: How do I Find My Person ― The One That’s Right for Me?
We all know modern dating is a wild ride. Hard, sometimes hilarious, often confusing. If you’re a fan of escape rooms, tightrope walks, or game shows ― dating’s got you covered!
The Inner Self Experience, LOVE Niche for Singles, isn’t just an exit ramp from the typical dating scene ― it’s intentionally curated for serious seekers hoping to find and sustain true, lasting love ― beginning with ourselves.
The Self Syllabus: Say I DO! to YOU
“My relationship with Cindy is characterized by transformation. She brought out the best in me. Under her dynamic influence, I’m a different person, but more myself than ever.”―D.S.
I DO! is LOVE Niche’s self-discovery course featuring exercises, assessment tools, coaching, and feedback. Sessions are one-on-one, in-person or remotely.
We begin by turning inward, unapologetically asking two questions rarely voiced by anyone: Would I marry ME? ― Am I the red flag I warn my friends about?
We honestly explore the good, the bad, and the EGO ― in how we seek love, hold on to it, or try to get over it when it ends.
It’s also well-suited for those in a relationship, whether participating solo or as a couple.
Inner work calls to the brave and curious. Maybe now is the time to reconnect with our inner selves, expect more from ourselves, and from those we invite into our lives.
The Brand New Single’s Set-up
I DO! + Mixer-ology, exclusive and optional for I DO! participants, is a small, intimate, private, upcoming Charlotte social learning gathering where like-minded men and women mingle. No digital distractions!
As host, I lead open, honest conversations about our well-being, dating, and love. Cocktails or mocktails are poured, insights flow, connections form, and as glasses clink ― sparks may fly!
Engage in a Transformative Opportunity
I’m seeking a small, select group of open-minded, open-hearted men and women to be part of the very first I DO! + Mixer-ology experience.
If you’re ready for a journey of deep personal evolution, this could be the beginning of something truly extraordinary. If this invitation speaks to you, let’s schedule an Xpresso Yourself coffee consultation ― on me!
Taking a Closer Look at I DO!
“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! I refer to her as a ‘bad-ass coach’ because she’ll be fiercely committed to your success and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you may want to hear.” –T.P.
Over several months, we meet weekly — either in-person or remotely — with personalized coaching and feedback every step of the way.
Real-World Relationship Experience
With 25 years of coaching experience, I’ve woven together insights from psychology, philosophy, spirituality, neuroscience, and personal branding to create a curriculum that’s both practical and transformative.
My guidance is rooted in professional certified training and real-life lessons from being single, married, and divorced — offering support that’s authentic, direct, and honest.
Having walked this path myself, I’ve created and tested every part of the I DO! process and deeply understand the ups and downs — the longing, heartaches, and the hope that comes with being single — seeking a thriving and intimate connection.
Know that you’re not alone on this journey. I walk right by your side.
Unapologetically Exploring Truths
Here, asking honest self-reflection questions invite meaningful dialogue and deeper understanding, such as:
Am I repeating patterns from childhood or past relationships? Am I holding onto past hurts or unresolved trauma that make it hard to trust or be vulnerable? Do I seek validation from others instead of finding it within?
What was it like growing up in your family ― normal, different, unique, challenging? If the next three years is a defining chapter, what is that chapter about? What you do for a living shapes who you become. Who did you become?
Anticipated Transformations
You’ll explore and better understand your true needs, values, and aspirations, while releasing self-limiting beliefs.
This journey guides you to find balance and fulfillment in all aspects of life—well-being, relationships, spirituality, fun, work, and finances.
You’ll stop wasting energy on things you can’t control and learn to accept all parts of yourself. You’ll hold yourself to higher expectations, and to elevate your standards, not only in Love, but also in Life and Leadership.
You’ll seek only highly functioning relationships where you feel seen, heard, and truly valued.
By honoring your mind, trusting your heart and gut, and managing your emotions, love follows naturally. Knowing who’s right (and wrong) for you becomes your guiding compass.
How I DO! + Mixer-ology Experiences Unfold
After you start I DO!, you have the option to attend Mixer-ology gatherings, exclusive just for I DO! participants. These small, intimate setting are away from screens, apps, and social media.
As I personally connect with each person individually, I bring men and women together based on shared experiences, values, and interests. Relying on my insight and instincts, I create opportunities for like-minded connections and meaningful interactions. Some refer to me as the “undercover matchmaker”!
With signature drinks in hand, I guide conversations on the knowledge gained through the curriculum and explore relational topics like attachment styles, gender dynamics in dating, emotional intelligence (EQ), communication styles, personal branding, and more.
We keep things light and fun too ― sharing laughs about why men need more than a recliner, TV, onion dip, and chips, and why women’s quest for the perfect pair of shoes takes so long!
Insights flow, friendships form, connections deepen, and as glasses clink — sparks may fly!
The Course Fee
Investing in yourself is the foundation for every relationship. Personal growth strengthens self-worth, informs wiser partner choices, and leads to lasting relationships.
During your complimentary consultation, I’ll review the curriculum to see which pathway serves you best with the matching monetary investment. Mixer-ology gatherings are priced separately.
Are You Ready for a Transformative Experience?
Let’s meet over coffee ― take a shot with an “eXpresso Yourself” complimentary consultation to answer questions and see if either I DO! solo or I DO! + Mixer-ology duo is an ideal fit. You can reach me here.
Every life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities.