Love
The LOVE Niche for Singles
Would I Marry Me…?
You’ve poured energy into your career, perhaps raised children, pursued personal passions, contributed to your community, or embraced the relaxation of retirement.
Yet, when it comes to love, familiar patterns seem to repeat — first dates that fizzle, relationships that stall or don’t have a future, or quietly step away just as things get serious.
It’s not for lack of trying. Authentic intimacy — the kind that endures — can feel elusive, especially after the end of a significant relationship, a divorce, or the loss of a partner, no matter how recent or distant.
So, what’s truly keeping love out of reach?
Turning inward is the first step. This journey goes beyond surface-level reflection and invites a revealing question: “Would I marry me?”
Sometimes, the most profound realizations come when you consider whether trauma, defensive habits, or idealized expectations have quietly created barriers, or reshaped attitudes about romance.
Am I the very red flag I warn my friends about?
It’s a daring question — but have you ever considered asking it?
The invitation: The Self Syllabus
The Self Syllabus master course in personal development and self-discovery offers a one-on-one transformative journey that unfolds over several months. While the ultimate goal is to find and maintain lasting love, its counterintuitive approach doesn’t focus on the dating process itself.
Instead, it prioritizes tailor-made skill-based exercises, comprehensive assessments, personalized coaching, and strategic practices designed for deep personal growth. By turning inward — it lays the foundation for authentic relationships that endure, rather than relying on luck, timing, or the hopes of meeting the right person.
This inner development leads to multi-beneficial growth beyond LOVE, enriching your sense of purpose, presence, and fulfillment in LIFE and LEADERSHIP.
We dig down deep by responding to these thought-provoking questions:
Are your achievements serving as shields against intimacy?
Are old patterns from childhood, divorce, or previous relationships being repeated?
Do you avoid conflict, lose yourself in relationships, or choose emotionally unavailable partners?
Are your boundaries clear and can you self-regulate your emotions?
Do you feel incomplete without a relationship or get swept away by infatuation?
Your best matchmaker is you
This process isn’t just about screening potential partners — it’s about taking an honest look at your own needs, values, readiness for commitment, and understanding what you’re no longer willing to tolerate or hold onto. You’ll discover how to respect your intellect, vet your heart, trust your gut, and realize that unregulated hormones are idiotic!
You’ll build a reliable, risk-aware mindset and master strategies that help safeguard yourself from individuals who may appear perfect for you but aren’t. These approaches will enable you to spot warning signs such as infatuation, emotional instability or unavailability, and recognize emotional impulses. In doing so, you’ll learn to overcome obstacles and magnify relational strengths.
For every relationship ending, there’s a beautiful one beginning. When opportunity meets preparation, a new chapter begins…
Meet Mixer-ology: A refreshingly mindful way to meet and connect
Mixer-ology is a private, intimate, cocktail-and mocktail-infused gathering that’s safe, secure, and fun for men and women working through the Self Syllabus. As host, I stir up honest conversations on relationship topics designed to shake up our fears and identify the red flags (yours and others) that we often ignore.
Drawing from personal experience in marriage, divorce, and the path of relational healing — I guide open-minded, deep discussions on relationships topics such as:
Attachment Theory 101 — think you know what you want? Think again.
Women may overlook good men; good men often struggle to attract women.
What defines high-functioning relationships — and why they’re essential.
A man’s actions are key to a relationship’s success.
Transform your look — makeovers matter.
Men need more than a recliner, a big TV, and French onion dip and chips!
Why does it take women so long to buy a pair of shoes?
We share real stories, laugh at our humanity, and explore what it means to be truly open — blending in a way that’s genuine and easy. It’s a non-judgmental setting where confidentiality is honored, with the opportunity to make mindful connections and perhaps spark something new over a clinking glass or splash of possibility!
So, back to the question: “Would I marry me?” After this journey, the answer is — “I do!”
Here’s what one participant had to say:
“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! She’s been by my side in both personal and professional development for years. I refer to her as a ‘bad-ass coach’ because she’ll be fiercely committed to your success and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you may want to hear. I can’t imagine where I’d be without her expertise, guidance, and unwavering support.” — T.P.
Shall we begin? Why wait?
Remember, the love of your life isn’t in your past — they’re waiting for you in the future. Let’s make sure they find the most amazing YOU!
I offer a complimentary conversation to answer any questions you may have, how I can best help, and share the master course fee. I’d love to hear from you. You can reach me here.
Every life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities!