Love
The LOVE Niche for Singles
Say I DO! to YOU!…First
Be Your Own Best Matchmaker
The LOVE Niche for Singles is a private, boutique-inspired space, which I created for discerning singles in mid-life and beyond ― who seek true, lasting love, but have yet to find it.
This Circle of Singles is distinguished by intellectual curiosity, humility, kindness, generosity, and a commitment to learn, grow, and evolve ― to be the best person and future partner possible.
At its core is a thought-provoking question rarely considered: Would I Marry ME…?
This sets the tone for honest self-reflection: Find Yourself First ― identifying relational needs, values, purpose, and vision, and examining histories, habits, and patterns that could reveal any red flags!
I DO! Self Syllabus™ is a one-on-one, structured framework to support this self-discovery process. It includes exercises, assessment tools, coaching, and personal branding, in person or remotely.
“Under Cindy’s dynamic influence, I’m a different person but more myself than ever.” ― D.S.
A Perfect Pairing: I DO! Meets Mixer-ology
Mixer-ology is an exclusive, upcoming, social learning experience in Charlotte. These intimate, lively gatherings offer the opportunity for I DO! participants ― like-minded men and women to mix, mingle, and connect. No apps or algorithms, just genuine face-to-face interaction.
As host, I guide real-life discussions on the challenges and joys of finding lasting love. While enjoying cocktails or mocktails, insights bubble-up, and as connections form, sparks may fly!
An Experience Unlike Any Other
Each I DO! + Mixer-ology gathering celebrates diversity and richness of participants’ backgrounds and experiences, connecting through shared values, interests, and stories. Yet the real magic lies in the serendipitous encounters ― meeting those whose paths may never have crossed otherwise!
For those who want to deepen self-understanding, I offer a personalized, complimentary Latte Listen coffee coaching chat, my treat! You can reach out to me here. Or if someone comes to mind, please share this information.
For those Curious to Learn More? Let’s Dive in…
Real-world Experience
With 25 years as a personal development coach, the I DO! immersive guide blends psychology, philosophy, spirituality, neuroscience, and personal branding in an experiential process that’s practical and transformative.
My greatest motivation for founding and developing the LOVE Niche for Singles is my deep passion and obsession for what I’ve created. I’ve lived every step of the I DO! journey, and truly understand the ups and downs, and hopes of seeking a thriving, lasting relationship.
Initially, this niche focused on men, then expanded to women. Exploring men’s romantic perspectives gave me valuable insights into their motivations and differences, helping me understand and to coach on how to build deeper connections and lasting relationships with them.
My guidance is grounded in certified training and personal experience ― single, married, and divorced — so you get support that’s authentic, direct, and honest.
You’re not alone ― I’m by your side every step of the way.
“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! I refer to her as my ‘bad-ass coach’ because she will tell you what you NEED to hear, not just what you may want to hear.” ―T.P.
Unapologetically Exploring Truths
Here, asking honest self-reflection questions invite meaningful dialogue and deeper understanding. How would you answer these?
Am I repeating patterns from childhood or past relationships? Am I holding onto past hurts or unresolved trauma that make it hard to trust or be vulnerable? Do I seek validation from others instead of finding it within?
What was it like growing up in your family ― normal, different, unique, challenging? Why are you here? What were you put on earth to do? If the next three years is a defining chapter, what is that chapter about?
Anticipated Transformations
You’ll discover your core needs, values, and aspirations, letting go of self-limiting beliefs along the way.
This journey guides you to balance and fulfillment across well-being, relationships, spirituality, play, work, and finances.
You’ll stop wasting energy on what you can’t control and pursue relationships where you’re genuinely seen, heard, and valued.
By honoring your mind, opening your heart, trusting your gut, and managing your impulses, you allow love to flow effortlessly, guided by discernment as your steady compass.
How I DO! + Mixer-ology Experiences Come to Life
Once participating in I DO!, you’ll have the option of exclusive Mixer-ology gatherings — intimate, lively, face-to-face connections ― free from digital distractions.
I connect personally with every participant, thoughtfully bringing together men and women based on shared values, interests, and life experiences. My intuition and experience help spark meaningful, like-minded connections — so much so that I refer to myself as the “undercover matchmaker!”
With a cocktail or mocktail in hand, we explore subjects like attachment styles, the dynamics of dating, emotional intelligence, personal branding, and modern outer makeovers (including home environments) — plus plenty more.
And of course, we keep things light and entertaining ― sharing laughs about why men need more than a recliner, TV, and onion dip and chips, or why women’s quest for the perfect shoes become an epic quest!
As glasses clink and laughter flows, insights are shared, connections made― and who knows… sparks may fly!
The Investment
Investing in yourself lays the groundwork for every relationship you build. Personal development enhances your self-worth, sharpens your choice of partners, and leads to real, lasting love.
I DO! offers two distinct coaching packages for you to consider: Immersion One, focused on Inner Core Exercises, and Immersion Two, which builds upon that with social science Assessment Tools. I’m happy to share pricing details when we connect. Mixer-ology gatherings are priced separately.
Take the Next Step
If you’re ready to invest in your Self, I’d love to connect! I offer a complimentary Latte Listen coaching coffee chat ― my treat! You can reach out to me here. Or if someone comes to mind, please share this information.
To be seen and to be heard is a priceless gift!
Every life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities.