Love
Be Your Own Best Matchmaker
Bringing Your Most Authentic, Extraordinary Self to Love
Who isn’t weary from endless swiping, searching, and yet ― still ending up single?
We all know modern dating is a wild ride. Hard, sometimes hilarious, often confusing. If you’re a fan of escape rooms, tightrope walks, or game shows ― dating’s got you covered!
The LOVE Niche for Singles isn’t just an exit ramp from the typical dating scene. It’s an intentional space that empowers men and women to learn, grow, evolve, and seek true, lasting love.
It’s also well-suited for those in a relationship, whether taking part individually or as a couple.
Find Yourself. Find Your Person.
“Under Cindy’s dynamic influence, I’m a different person, but more myself than ever.”―D.S.
The Self Syllabus: I DO! is a transformative self-discovery experience spanning several months with weekly sessions. It’s a reflective, individualized process including in-depth, interactive exercises, assessment tools, coaching, and feedback, available in-person or remotely.
We unapologetically ask bold, revealing questions few dare to ask: Would I marry ME? ― Am I the red flag I warn my friends about?
Through this process, we discover how the good, the bad, and the EGO have shaped our patterns, behaviors, and beliefs driving our romantic choices ― for better or for worse.
By reconnecting with ourselves and raising our standards, we spark positive changes not just in Love, but in Life and Leadership. Growth in one area fuels growth in others.
The Ultimate Introduction: I DO! + Mixer-ology
Mixer-ology is an intimate, private, upcoming social setting, optional and exclusive for I DO! participants. They’re private, safe, and lively gatherings in Charlotte where like-minded men and women connect.
As host, I lead engaging and educational discussions on well-being, dating, and love. As cocktails or mocktails are poured, insights flow, connections mix, and as glasses clink, sparks may fly!
Experience a Transformative Opportunity
I’m inviting a small, select group of open-minded, open-hearted men and women to be part of the inaugural I DO! + Mixer-ology.
If you’re ready for meaningful personal growth, this could be the start of something extraordinary. If this invitation resonates, let’s connect for a Xpresso Yourself coffee consultation ― my treat!
Diving Deeper
What you’ve just read covers the Love Niche for Singles highlights ― keep exploring to learn more…
Real-world Relationship Experience
With 25 years as a personal development coach, I blend psychology, philosophy, spirituality, neuroscience, and personal branding to offer a process that’s practical and transformative.
My guidance is grounded in certified training and personal experience ― single, married, and divorced — so you get support that’s authentic, direct, and honest.
I’ve lived every step of the I DO! journey, given that I developed it, and truly understand the ups and downs, and hopes of seeking a thriving and intimate relationship.
You’re not alone ― I’m here with you every step of the way.
Unapologetically Exploring Truths
Here, asking honest self-reflection questions invite meaningful dialogue and deeper understanding, such as:
Am I repeating patterns from childhood or past relationships? Am I holding onto past hurts or unresolved trauma that make it hard to trust or be vulnerable? Do I seek validation from others instead of finding it within?
What was it like growing up in your family ― normal, different, unique, challenging? If the next three years is a defining chapter, what is that chapter about? What you do for a living shapes who you become. Who did you become?
Anticipated Transformations
You’ll discover your core needs, values, and aspirations, letting go of self-limiting beliefs along the way.
This journey guides you to balance and fulfillment across well-being, relationships, spirituality, fun, work, and finances.
You’ll stop wasting energy on what you can’t control and pursue relationships where you’re genuinely seen, heard, and valued.
By honoring your mind, trusting your heart and gut, and managing your emotions, you let love flow naturally, using discernment as your guiding compass.
How I DO! + Mixer-ology Experiences Unfold
After you join I DO!, you’re invited to exclusive Mixer-ology gatherings — intimate, safe, lively and in-person away from digital distractions.
I personally connect with each person, bringing together men and women based on shared values, interests, and experiences. My insight and intuition help spark meaningful, like-minded connections — some even calling me the “undercover matchmaker!”
With signature drinks in hand, we dive into topics like attachment styles, dating dynamics, emotional intelligence, communication, personal branding, and more.
Of course, we keep things light and fun too ― laughing about why men need more than a recliner, TV, remotes, and onion dip and chips, and why women’s quest for the perfect shoes takes so long!
As glasses clink, insights flow, friendships form, and sometimes — sparks fly!
The Course Fee
Investing in yourself is the foundation for every relationship. Personal growth strengthens self-worth, informs wiser partner choices, and leads to lasting relationships.
We’ll review the I DO! Syllabus options to see which pathway serves you best and the corresponding monetary investment. Mixer-ology gatherings are priced separately.
Your Next Step
Take a shot with a Xpresso Yourself complimentary coffee consultation. I’d love to hear about you and answer any questions you may have. You can reach me here.
Every life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities.