Love

Would I Marry ME? Start with Self. End with I DO. 

Are you still single and searching for real, lasting love? If so, you’re not alone.

Many of us find ourselves disappointed with today’s dating world, marked by superficial encounters, ghosting, and unmet expectations. Finding someone with shared values can seem elusive.

It’s tempting to think all the good ones are gone, that dating is just hard, or to blame others for their unresolved issues. Often, the real reasons aren’t “out there” ― they’re within us.

Who actually asks, “Would I marry ME?” or “Am I the red flag I warn my friends about?”

This is where The LOVE Niche for Singles shines. It’s an inclusive community of intentional men and women committed to personal growth to become their best Self, prepared for love.

At the heart of this journey is the foundational Self Syllabus ― an introspective roadmap I’ve developed and refined with twenty-five years of coaching individuals in Life and Leadership across the country and internationally. Here, within the Love niche, I’ve renamed it the “I DO!” Syllabus™.

I DO! is a one-on-one mastery course in self-discovery ― a holistic, deep, meaningful inner self journey to intimately know yourself: the good, the bad, and the ego, offered in-person or remotely. It includes proprietary exercises, assessment tools, and personalized coaching.

Instead of focusing on fixing the dating world, it’s about becoming someone truly worth investing in ― ready to invite others into your life who are also prepared to create a healthy, thriving partnership.

Building on this foundation, I envisioned an ideal complement to I DO! ― an experience where self-discovery meets mindful, authentic connections, offered as an optional addition.

Coming early 2026 to Charlotte: “I DO! + Mixer-ology Duo,” an exclusive, app-free singles experience.

Mixer-ology is a private, exclusive, and safe social learning gathering I host, open only to I DO! “insiders” to mix, mingle and connect in an intimate, lively, and refreshingly screen-free space.

I guide “straight-up” honest talks about dating, love, and our unpredictable hormones! Cocktails or mocktails are stirred, insights bubble up, connections form, and as glasses clink, sparks may fly!

You can choose to participate in the “I DO!” Syllabus solo if you want to focus purely on self-discovery and personal growth or are participating remotely as you live outside the Charlotte area. The “I DO! + Mixer-ology Duo” experience is available exclusively for those able to attend in-person events in Charlotte.

The Result

A one-of-a-kind synergistic experience where coaching, support, and preparation meet opportunity!

You’ll invest in yourself, reimagine your journey toward love, and form mindful, authentic connections with others who share your same intentions: learning, growing, and evolving, where all share a common goal ― finding “your person”.

So, back to the question, “Would I marry ME?” After this journey, the answer is a confident “Yes!” and a fearless “I DO!” ―  a commitment to becoming the best ME and best partner. No red flags ― just green lights for love ahead!

Ready to dig deeper?

The Invitation: The “I DO!” Syllabus ― Learn. Grow. Evolve.

The I DO! journey turns inward, guiding you through a holistic process of honest self-reflection in either a two-month or four-month engagement. These include propriety inner core exercises, strategic practices, and social science assessments on behavioral style, motivation, and emotional intelligence, as well as personalized coaching with candid feedback.

Rooted in psychology, neuroscience, philosophy, couples therapy, personal branding, spirituality, and twenty-five years of experience in the personal development field, the course delivers actionable skills, tools, and true insights for real, lasting change.

The insights gained extend well beyond the realm of love. The skills and knowledge you learn foster greater self-awareness for personal growth and development across every areas of your life.

Every part of this course draws from real-life lessons I’ve learned through my own journey ― including my mistakes, insights, and experiences in dating, marriage, and divorce. By sharing these, I hope to offer authenticity and support to help you grow throughout the course.

Here’s what Tom, a 48-year-old entrepreneur shared:

“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! I refer to her as a ‘bad-ass coach’ because she’ll be fiercely committed to your success and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you may want to hear.”

Hearing from clients like Tom reminds us that real growth begins with honest self-examination.

Here, we dig deep to uncover hidden barriers to love with revealing questions like:

Am I repeating patterns from childhood or past relationships? Am I holding onto past hurts or unresolved trauma that make it hard to trust or be vulnerable? Do I seek validation from others instead of finding it within?

We also dive into the bigger life questions like:

What was it like growing up in your family? If the next three years is a defining chapter in your life, what is that chapter about? What is the unique gift you offer the world? 

Anticipated Transformations

You’ll clarify your needs and values, assess your readiness for commitment, and reflect on what you truly want ― and don’t want ― in future relationships.

You’ll learn to spot red flags, recognize emotional unavailability, and make mindful choices rather than acting on impulse. You’ll commit to pursuing only those connections that truly align with those standards.

You’ll deepen connections and self-awareness in all areas of your life, not just in romance.

When you honor your mind, vet your heart, trust your gut, and manage your emotions ― love follows. It can’t help itself. Knowing who’s right and wrong for you becomes your guiding compass.

The Invitation: Mixer-ology ― Sip. Reflect. Connect.

Mixer-ology gatherings brings together an intimate, balanced mix of men and women in a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere. We mingle, and as the evening unfolds, with cocktail or mocktail in hand, as host, I lead meaningful, thought-provoking conversations.

We delve into meaningful topics such as exploring attachment styles, releasing the lingering effects of past relationships, defining what men and women truly seek in a partnership ― including their unique perspectives ― the intricacies of personal branding, and more.

Lighthearted moments keep things fun ― like why men need more than a recliner, TV, onion dip, and chips, or why women take so long to find the perfect shoes!

Through shared stories and unexpected insights, you might spark a new friendship ― or even a sip of romance! And phones stay out of sight!

And who knows? You may find a flourishing new friendship or sip of romance or as we share real stories, ah-ha moments, or new insights!

The Course Investment

Investing in yourself is the foundation for every relationship. Personal growth strengthens self-worth, informs wiser partner choices, and leads to lasting relationships. The “I DO!” Syllabus packages start at $1,950. Mixer-ology events are priced separately.

Take the Next Step: Are You Ready?

So, back to the question, “Would I marry ME?” After this journey, the answer is a confident “Yes!” and a fearless “I DO!”― committing to become the best ME and best future partner. And as for the question, “Am I the red flag I warn my friends about?, rest assured, no red flags – just green lights ahead!

Are you ready for a transformative experience?

Take a bold shot! Experience a complimentary eXpresso Yourself consultation. Let’s grab a cup and explore which “I DO!” path fits ― syllabus solo or Mixer-ology Duo. You can reach me here.

Every life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities. Let’s discover yours together!