Love

The LOVE Niche for Singles

Become Your Own Best Match Maker.

As a personal development coach, I invite singles to explore a key question as they seek another chance at finding love — after a breakup, divorce, or losing a loved one:

Truth or Consequences: Would I Marry Me?

If you confidently say, “Yes, I would marry me,” you could believe that you are in a good place to find new love. And if so, I’m happy for you.

For others who hesitate, then truthfully admit, “No, I wouldn’t marry me,” I can help.

As you gain self-awareness, and become better equipped to form healthy, high-functioning relationships, you’ll be able to confidently say ‘yes’ with great intention!

Is this challenging? Yes. But the ROI is priceless!

Most singles — no matter how long they’ve been single — have never truly asked themselves that provocative question. Nor have they fearlessly delved into their inner workings.

Rarely do we unpack unhealthy relationship patterns, critique feedback from former partners, or assess our outer appearances. We often neglect to define our purpose, needs, and values, build a value-based self-brand, measure our emotional intelligence (EQ), or reevaluate our dating skills.

We’re also not adept at spotting the early signs of emotional instability or reducing our vulnerability to those who seem perfect for us but aren’t. Or if detected, we’re not sure what to do about it.

The Self Syllabus is a master course in self-reflection and self-improvement that precedes dating. 

This month’s long program features inner core exercises, assessment tools, robust discussions, and in-the-moment coaching. You’ll reconnect with your emotions, learn to respect your intellect, vet your heart, trust your gut, and realize that hormones are idiotic!

The journey of self-development is crucial, as it helps you truly understand your relational patterns and capabilities, what you’ve done right and wrong in the past, and areas for improvement.

Great relationships start with the one you have with yourself.

The Self Syllabus empowers you to be your own best matchmaker, ensuring you’re ready to connect with others in a meaningful and authentic way and avoid common mistakes that lead or have led to disastrous relationships.

My experiences with marriage and divorce contributed to the creation of the LOVE Niche for Singles and the Self Syllabus. I’ve studied human interactions due to childhood experiences, relational mistakes, and a keen interest in human communication dynamics.

I know my process works because I’ve applied it to my own relational journey, as well as countless others.

Remember this: Every life experience and every past relationship, even the most painful and difficult, have prepared you for this moment. The love of your life Is not in your past; ‘your person’ is waiting for you in the future.

Introducing Mixer-ology. 

It’s an intimate gathering space, where you can engage, learn, and evolve with like-minded men and women navigating the LOVE Niche for Singles. It combines a fun, social, and educational setting with mixed cocktails and mocktails, as I guide you through stimulating and thought-provoking relational topics.

Which of these resonate the most for you?

Attachment Theory 101: You think you know what you want, but you’re wrong.

Let go of past relationship residue.

Women often overlook good men, and good men can struggle to attract women.

What are high-functioning relationships, and why are they essential?

A man’s actions are the key variable that determines whether a relationship succeeds or fails.

Look the part to get the part. Makeovers matter.

Dodge the pitfalls of online dating.

Reject myths about instant chemistry.

Men need more than a lazy-boy, 75-inch TV, remotes, and French onion dip and chips!

Why does it take women so long to buy a pair of shoes?   

We’ll laugh, maybe cry, and celebrate wins as you discover that authenticity and vulnerability are essential and enhances appeal and attractiveness. You’ll make new friends and perhaps even a romantic connection!

What a participant had to say.

“If you choose to work with Cindy, buckle up! She’s been by my side in both personal and professional development for years. I refer to her as a ‘bad-ass coach’ because she’ll be fiercely committed to your success and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you may want to hear. I can’t imagine where I’d be without her expertise, guidance, and unwavering support.” — T.P.

Let the journey to love begin.

If you’d like to learn more, I’d love to hear from you. I offer a complimentary conversation to answer any questions you may have, share the investment, and see how I can best help. You can reach me here.

Every LOVE life is a kaleidoscope of possibilities!